today was my second day attending school out as trans to my teachers. they were really accepting but still arnt yet use to my pronouns. teachers used my preferred name and did it with a smile. there are other teachers of mine that dont know yet and they still use my birth name but i dont blame them they dont know. there is still a lot of misgendering. there is also the work factor i am not out at all at work they all think that i am the gender i was assigned at birth and it makes uncomfortable. people who know my pronouns always try to use them with out messing up. in these blogs i will also have things that i have learned about people since coming out as non-binary about a year before coming out at trans. i have learned that people say that misgendering is ok because that is what they are because that is what corresponds to what is in their pants. but what people dont know is that the person that they are misgendering feels really uncomfortable in that moment and feels really bad because what the people just called them dose not align with how they feel. when people do this i always ask how they would feel if someone called them the opposite gender .
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